Every girl wants a special guy in their life. That guy that will be with you through everything that comes your way. That will accept your flaws and never put you down. The things you expect from family and friends, even strangers, is what you should expect from your boyfriend. So I decided to come up with a short list of basic things you should want and not want from that guy in your life. I can only by my own experience, so I'm not an expert, but either way I hope this helps.
1. THE QUITTER GUY
If you had a friend that always made excuses and broke promises and when things got tough they just left, wouldn't you start to distant yourself from them? The same should go for your boyfriend. Don't settle for a quitter. When things get bad and he disappears, don't chase after him. If he can't handle the bad times then he shouldn't be able to enjoy the good times. Quitting doesn't make anything better, if you think things can be worked out with him, go for it! But never settle because you are lonely. Wouldn't you rather be happy alone than miserable with someone else?
2. THE LIAR GUY
When a friends repeatedly lies, wouldn't you end that friendship? Lying and cheating in a relationship is never okay and is very disrespectful. If they are telling you lies you know about, just think of the lies they are telling you that you don't know about. You have to stand up for yourself, and say that you will no longer accept the lies and it's time to meet someone better.
3. THE GUY WHO HASN'T GROWN UP
Of course you want a guy that has a good relationship with his mom, that is a good way to tell how he will treat you in the relationship. The problem comes when he is a little bit ( well a lot) obsessed with his mom. If your guy's mom is always around there is a problem. Your man is more than capable of doing his own laundry, cooking meals for himself sometimes, and he doesn't always have to run to his mother when the two of you have problems. I'm not saying he can't talk to his mom about his problems, but the best way to fix the issues you two have is to try to work it out between the two of you first. Also don't accept a guy that wants you be his mother or maid. You didn't give birth to him and you didn't get hired by him to be a maid. You are his lover not mother. If you see him acting this way confront him about it and tell him how you feel. If he understands and is willing to make things better, well that's just great, and if not move on.
4. THE MEAN GUY
When any other person in our life is mean and abusive (verbally or physically) we stay away from them. If a guy is always putting you down and making you feel like crap, there is absolutely no reason you should stay with him. No type of abuse is ever acceptable, but especially physical abuse. Get out of that relationship fast. Get help from a close friend, family member or anyone that can help you. You deserve so much better. I hope you guys never feel the need to stay with someone who treats you badly. You're beautiful and stronger than you think.
I hope this advice will help you guys, I'm no expert, but I have had experience. I love you guys!
P.S. Your guy should be your best friend and lover :)